Alright here's just a short rant I have to get off my chest, Okay, so just to start off I just want to say that this is in no way meant to hurt any people or to any specific person. So I have one thing that just drives me crazy more than anything else in this world, and I usually am a pretty calm person and try to show compassion about things. But just recently I've had a lot of people complaining about their lives very much. "Nobody loves me, my parents are so strict they don't understand, I'm so depressed with my life," ect ect.
And y'know that's okay, I get it. I've had days like that, you've had days like that, we've ALL had days like that. No body's perfect and were just human. But what really gets to me is that they just keep complaining, making it all about them, and not even doing anything about it. Not taking responsibility, and making an effort to do something, making up excuses to why they can't do anything. Bull shit, there is always something you can do, you just have to stop sucking on your thumb and get back up. Always, ALWAYS, get back up. I know it had be hard, but it can be done. I know that just laying down and pitying yourself may be easier, and I've done that before, too. But I learned from all my experiences that it makes everything worse, and only hurts you and others.
Sometimes yes, things ARE really really hard and it's okay to stop for a while and just cry, but you have to get back up. I see people try and get attention by saying how bad their life sucks, while there are people in the hospital dying. While there are being out on the battlefield putting their lives on the line, for what? For you to sulk your whole life? There are people dying from hunger, people who are abused maliciously, who have no home, and people who truly have no one that loves them and are alone.
And then there's the people who start drama because they are bored, and sulk in self pity. I wish that I could just yell out to them and say, "There are people who have it so much worse than you do, you don't know how good you really have it. Please don't give up yet, you are so special, and amazing, and beautiful! You have so much to offer this world if you would try!" And know that they would understand. If they would just take all the bad things that happened and use it to make them stronger, instead of using it as a shield.
I mean not everyone is like that but...there's just too many from what I see. I just wish that they would at least try and not give up when things get rough and it doesnt work out the first few times. Ah, maybe I'm just being a bit critical because I've been through a lot and see things differently. I mean I know what it's like to feel like that, trust me. I do.
I dunno, maybe I'm over-thinking this, but that's just what's been eating at my mind lately. It's just I've seen to many great and wonderful people succumb to this. Well okay, I'm done. If you read this until then end, thank you. -Derryn
You're are right, some people only stay regretting and don't make something to resolve it. I have a friend like that, when she make something wrong she get depressed! and I try to cheer her but sometimes I just get tired...
I don't understand why some people try and get attention saying that their life is a shit, everybody have our own problems, the life isn't easy.
Yeah, maybe you really need to let the things out and talk to someone but being saying that your life is wrong always you make a mistake isn't good.
You know the score your right a lot of people have it much worse I have a friend who may not have long to live and hes getting on with his life fine he's that kinda person you want to hang out with yknow?, You got a good head on your shoulders.
A little less complaining and a little more commitment goes a long way right?
Right If Im ever in the dumps he just tells me straight "Get a hold of yourself" Now that I think about it he has it a lot worse than me...Your a really impressive person, thanks hehe you know I think I understand a few things better because of you